Father Abraham -- Matthew 10:24-39

Genesis 21:8-21
Romans 6:1b-11
Matthew 10:24-39

Grace and peace from God our Creator, hope in our Redeemer Jesus the Christ, and the promised gifts of the Holy Spirit are with you, always. Amen.

When I first read through today’s scripture, I was like, “whoa.” Some really seminal stories from our tradition, for sure, full of meaning. I don’t know how much you all know about sermon preparation, but I was thinking, immediately upon reading these foundational words that it’s a good thing I get to consult thinkers besides myself for this sermon this morning. It’s a good thing that the only resource available to me is not just these words on these pages and the thoughts in my head, but rather the words that surround these words in this whole book, and the thoughts in the heads of all those who have come before me in faith. That extreme is also overwhelming, but it’s a huge relief. This is probably not the first sermon you’ve heard on these texts, and it probably won’t be the last—which is also great, because now there’s no need for me to rattle off everything you ought to know about Abraham and Isaac and Ishmael and Sarah and Hagar and Paul and Jesus and…the gang’s all here. 

So, where to begin?

Let’s begin in the Family Center, just across the way. It was there, nearly 20 years ago that I first learned the Sunday School song “Father Abraham” during Learning Circles one morning. “Father Abraham, had many sons. Many sons had Father Abraham…” If you know it, you’re welcome that it will be in your head now, forever. The next line is “I am one of them, and so are you,” but this ancient story also produced my first experience of feminism, as my friend Elizabeth Limbach sang, instead, “I’m not one of them, cuz I’m a girl.” The song ends, “So let’s all praise the Lord.” Let’s. 

Praise the Lord that we are here together this morning!
Praise the Lord that the sun is shining!
Praise the Lord that we are mostly happy and mostly healthy!
Praise the Lord that when we are mostly unhappy and mostly unhealthy, we are not alone!
Praise the Lord for old friends and for new ones!
Praise the Lord for ends and for beginnings!
Praise the Lord for adventures and for homecomings!
Praise the Lord for struggles and for reconciliation!

I know this is a Lutheran church, but can I get an amen? A hallelujah? Praise God. Okay, awesome. But now let’s take a look at those texts. 

We know these characters well. We’ve heard their stories and we vaguely remember their names and what lessons God taught them and what lessons that teaches us. But what, really, do we do with this part of being one of Abraham’s “many sons”? 

Just to recap, this story is the end/beginning of the struggle between Sara, Abraham, Isaac, Hagar, and Ishmael. Sara and Abraham had no children and were very old—like a few hundred, because that’s how ancient storytelling works—but God had promised that they would have descendants as plentiful as the stars. So Sara agreed that Abraham should father a child with Hagar, their slave, so that he’d have offspring. God promised to make of that son, Ishmael, a great nation, too. And then Sara got miraculously pregnant and had Isaac. Two heirs to the lineage of Abraham, two promises from God. Uh oh. 

So, in the portion we heard this morning, Sara demanded that Abraham banish Hagar and Ishmael, because there was no way that the two boys could share in the promise of God. That had never happened before and it wasn’t about to happen now, apparently. 

This story is an easy allegory for the ongoing struggle between the Abrahamic traditions—Judaism, Christianity, and Islam—that have followed. Though separated, Isaac and Ishmael—and we—must live together in the extended family of God. A Rabbi named Arthur Waskow writes that Isaac and Ishmael—and we, descended of Abraham, too—are a “cloudy mirror to each other.” The problem is not that we are so different, but that we are so similar. 

For the Israeli/Palestinian crisis, it is impossible for both groups to reconcile that they “love the same land.” God has promised this land twice—to Isaac and to Ishmael, to Jews and to Arabs—because God wants all of God’s people to “live out their particular pattern of holiness” in an embodied, planted, rooted, earthy, place

Rabbi Waskow does an incredible job of giving Christians the lay of the land in this millennia-old war—and then offering us a specific place at the table. [If you want to know more about this, specifically, I can point you toward Rabbi Waskow’s essay. If you want to know more about this, in general, I can point you toward Pastor Daren and his PhD research.] 

The great thing that Rabbi Waskow gives to us is this deep wisdom: As Christians, we’ve weaseled our way into weird positions—some us are Christian Zionists, more zealous even than most Jews about their right to inhabit the land we call holy, condemning Palestinians as aggressors and terrorists; some of us are aggressively Pro-Palestinian, claiming that the land was unlawfully given to the Jews as a sovereign state, with no regard for anyone’s holiness. We insert ourselves into arguments about Jewish tradition and Muslim tradition, meanwhile, we notice not the log in our own religious eyes.

How can we, then, as complex people of complex faith affirm all of the above—Jewish, Muslim, Christian—“children of God in the body and spirit of Abraham”? 
Sorry if you’re expecting an answer. This is not a question for one sermon or one church or one nation—but we are better for it if we wrestle with these big questions again and again and again. Together.

We’re going to do some things wrong—we’re going to grab at words as they tumble out of our mouths, wishing we could stuff them back in there before anyone heard them. It happens. 

In Paul’s letter to the Romans, he acknowledges that the stakes are pretty high. I just love the abrupt start of our portion this morning. Right off the bat, he’s like, “Should we continue to sin in order that grace may abound? By no means!”—if any of the high schoolers are playing sermon bingo this morning, I hope “sin” and “grace” are on your card. But I don’t know about that, y’all. Martin Luther says “Sin boldly! Trust and rejoice in Christ even more boldly.” A fun thing about having so many “fathers” of our faith is that even they disagree sometimes, and we get to draw our own conclusions, taking theirs into consideration. What fun! I’m with Marty on this one. Grace abounds. Be who you are, unafraid of what pieces of you others may name as sin. Speak truth to power. Speak the truth to one another in love. Err on the side of saying so. Grace abounds. 

This brings us to the third confusing text of the morning, the Gospel. Jesus is talking about slaves and masters and teachers and Beelzebul and secrets and dark and light and bodies and souls and then sparrows…? (Congratulations, by the way—you are of more value than many sparrows. I’m putting that on my résumé.) 

These verses are meant to be reassuring, but I’m not reassured. Shelley Douglass, who’s part of the Catholic Worker movement, is with me on this one. “Who wants to lay down their life?” She asks. “Baptismal death is comfortably symbolic; we’d prefer to leave it that way.” 
The part of this dying to life paradox that is comforting, after all, is “not that we won’t die, but that if we die for [Jesus’] sake, we will live again. Like Jesus, we will live a transformed life.” 

Sometimes, in this transformed life, we’ll run into those hard conversations and insolvable riddles and those foot-in-mouth moments. We’ve been warned by Jesus in this text that we’ll be set father against son, mother against daughter, in-laws against in-laws—families might be torn apart. That’s a huge risk. That’s some bold sinning we’re about to do. 

But Shelley Douglass continues to keep it real, writing, “We cannot know as we begin to act what the outcome will be. We can only know that as we respond to the mercy shown to us by showing mercy, we invite the death of our former selves. And we believe—sometimes barely—that when the dust has settled…we will regain our lives.” Mmm. 

And so my favorite prayer that Martin Luther wrote seems like the ideal way to draw this to a close: “Lord God, you have called your servants to ventures of which we cannot see the ending, by paths as yet untrodden, through perils unknown. Give us faith to go out with good courage, not knowing where we go, but only that your hand is leading us and your love supporting us; through Jesus Christ our Lord.”


Amen. 

"The pivot of hope," Walter Brueggemann

On reading 1 Samuel 16:1-13 on Maundy Thursday, Walter Brueggeman writes:


This day of dread and betrayal and denial
causes a pause in our busyness.

Who would have thought that you would take
this eighth son of Jesse
to become the pivot of hope in our ancient memory?

Who would have thought that you would take
this uncredentialed
Galilean rabbi
to become the pivot of newness in the world?

Who would have thought that you--
God of gods and Lord of lords--
would fasten on such small, innocuous agents
whom the world scorns
to turn creation toward your newness?

As we are dazzled,
give us the freedom to restate our lives in modest, uncredentialed, vulnerable places.

We ask for freedom and courage to move out from our nicely arranged patterns of security into dangerous places of newness where we fear to go.

Cross us by the cross, that we may be Easter marked. Amen.

Home -- Jeremiah 29:1, 4-14

Grace and peace from God our creator, Hope in our Redeemer, Jesus the Christ, and the promised gifts of the Holy Spirit are with you, always. Amen.

There are few words that bring more comfort to my mind than the word “home.” It’s a small word. Only four letters. Only one syllable. Home. “Honey, I’m home!” we shout. “Home, sweet home,” we sigh. We go home for the holidays, or our families come home to us! It’s where the heart is, we sometimes say. It’s where your mom is, a friend of mine says.

And we can feel at home even when we are not—when we gather with people from home in a new place, when we hug an old friend, when we hear an old, familiar song. Home is a place for togetherness. It’s where we celebrate important occasions and life milestones. It’s where we pass on traditions—food, music, dress, customs, ways of being in relationship. It’s where we look at old photos and laugh about fashions and learn about generations that came before us. Home is where we become who we are.

For Jeremiah’s listeners, those in exile in Babylon, the word “home” did not mean what it means to us. For refugees and internally displaced people in our modern world, “home” does not mean the same as it means to us. People in exile live in an uncertainty as to how long they’ll be where they are, if they’ll ever return to where they came from—if their dwelling places will even be standing, were they to return there.

It’s likely that the exiles were a bit grumbly about their forced migration. The Israelites are a grumbly people, if you recall their upset about the manna from heaven in the wilderness being tasteless and uninteresting, after God had miraculously provided it to them for their survival. It’s always something.

But in verse 7 of the Jeremiah reading, it is written, “seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.”  That doesn’t make it sound like Babylon is a place they’re just visiting.

An Episcopal priest named Martin Smith wrote a really great piece about this, and he says that, with these words, the exiles are being invited to trust that their time in Babylon is not outside of God’s vision for them as the chosen people.

“If they would only reject the poison of resentment,” Martin Smith writes, "then they could live and learn—and be prepared by God—for an eventual restoration. They must feel for and with their new neighbors. They must identify appropriately with the city that is now their provisional home, for all its overpowering strangeness.” It is by digging in to their new community that they will be restored.

And so God tells the people to make themselves at home in Babylon. “Build houses and live in them,” Jeremiah writes. “Plant gardens, and eat what they produce. Take wives, and have sons and daughters; take wives for your sons, and give your daughters in marriage; multiply there, and do not decrease.” If God is encouraging the exiles to have children and to ensure that those children have children, this exile is not going to be over any time soon. Generations will live in this new place, and generations will pass away in this new place. This exile is going to be a whole different ballgame.

For those of us who certainly can go home again, it can be hard to hear this Word of God about exile and know what to make of it. But Malinda Elizabeth Berry says that, “Our experiences and the ways they teach us to adapt, change, and grow is part of God's shalom project—caring about the communities where we find ourselves because our welfare is beautifully bound up in those places we call home.” It’s our responsibility to get invested in the communities in which we live, for we are inextricably bound together.

Though we may not feel like we live in a state of exile this morning, we can still heed these words. We can still dig in to the communities in which we live, seeking the welfare of those with whom we share this place. We as the people of God are not meant to insular and self-centered and exclusive. We’re meant to shine the light of the promises of God to all nations, all people, all neighbors. That’s what the exiles were supposed to do, and that’s still what we’re supposed to do.

But it’s not that God misunderstands, though, that it is going to be hard. The “overpowering strangeness” of the Babylonians cannot be understated. The customs were not Jewish, there was no temple, there was no liturgy, there were no priests. It was not like home. In fact, it was the worst environment that many of these people had ever found themselves in. The oppressive Babylonian regime was no walk in the park. The exiles needed these words of support from their God.

Renita Weems, a professor from Georgia, wrote a commentary on the book of Jeremiah. In it, she explains that Jeremiah is survival literature and protest literature. Have you read The Joy Luck Club or Night or Souls of Black Folks? These are modern literary examples of the kind of thing that Renita Weems is saying Jeremiah was writing for his people. She writes that, “Rather than trivializing their suffering or interpreting it away, these writers face their community’s suffering with courage and in protest.”

Because, from the sounds of this letter from the prophet Jeremiah, they weren’t headed home at the end of the day. For the exiles, thinking of the word “home” was no longer going to call to mind the warm feelings of comfort and family that we’re calling to mind, now. That image of home was just going to be a reminder of their exile. Of their away-ness from that. Of their inability to raise their children in the traditions they’d been raised with. Of their inability to eat and drink and work and worship the ways they’d always known. And so, because home could not be that place, could maybe never be a place at all, anymore, home-ness came from God. It was in the promises of God that the exiles could have confidence in their identities. They could raise their children in the same covenant relationship they had known. In that sense, they could be home, again.

And the book of Jeremiah tells us all about God’s relationship to God’s people. Later in the book, he’ll write about his vision for a new beginning and a new covenant, not just a touch-up. Renita Weems writes that Jeremiah, “imagined God painting a different picture of life with a completely new canvas.” And “God is one who so empathizes with the world as to identify with broken societies, exiled communities, tortured peoples, and lands laid waste.” If we take Jeremiah seriously, he’s telling us that “out of ruin can come resurrection.”

Earlier, I said that we may not feel like we’re in a state of exile this morning. Maybe you do. Maybe you feel like you just can’t get a hold on things. Like you’re always in between things, always transitioning, rushing, changing, moving. Never quite settling. Never quite home. Maybe, in the midst of that, you feel like God is too far away. Maybe you feel like you need to be restored. Maybe you feel dead enough to need resurrecting.

Throughout his prophetic writing, Jeremiah knows that God has not abandoned them. God has not broken God’s promises, not once. You’ve maybe heard Jeremiah 29:11 a million times—“for surely I know the plans I have for you, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.” There’s a future, and it’s hopeful. And God is with us, here, now and there, then. “When you search for me, you will find me,” Jeremiah says that God says. “When you call upon me and come and pray to me I will hear you.”

In the hymn we’re going to sing, we’ll hear these words once more. “Do not be afraid, I am with you.” We’ll sing. “Come and follow me, I will bring you home. I love you and you are mine.” These are words that we know to be true because they were said to us in our baptism, and are said to us continually by the God who calls us each by name. And so you see, we are never far from home, for God is always with us.


And as we enter the season of Advent in the coming days, we’ll proclaim that a line shines in the darkness, and that the darkness does not overcome it. But in making that claim, we acknowledge the darkness that surrounds us. We acknowledge the sin and death that can pervade even the sunniest of days. But with that coming shining light, we know for certain that the hope and the peace that surpasses all human understanding lives and breathes and walks among us.

God with us, Emmanuel. 

Thanks be to God. 

Amen.